I called PGN last Friday and they confirmed PBJ's file was on the director's desk. I figured, here it is a week later, I would call again and maybe get the great news first hand. Instead, I talked with a really lovely young woman who informed me that our case was kicked into investigation in the minor's section. Our birth mother is not a minor, but the Minor's section handles all kinds of other things. My guess is it is the issue with her not speaking spanish and having been labelled Mute on her documents. I will have to wait for the attorney to go and get all the info to know what is really going on. This could add weeks or months to our case. it is not good news. She will not be home by her birthday in October. She will not be home for Halloween. She may not be home for Christmas.
I feel like the rug was just pulled out from under me. Just yesterday I was looking at carseats trying to decide which one I wanted to buy for her. I decided to wait to buy anything until I got The Call. Well, that call won't be coming anytime soon.
I'm going to go find a big rock, crawl under it, and I'll see you all in the spring. OK?
10 comments:
NOW HEAR ME...
There are NO rocks to hide under...
I know this is very disapointing news, this completely sucks... (I can think of a better word, but I don't want to be struck by lighten)... I am not going to tell you to hang in there. I hated it when people said that to me. I would picture myself HANGING....
So, this is what you need to do... It is Friday... Tonight, after the little ones (Levi) goes to bed, pour your self the BIGGEST GLASS OF WINE YOU CAN FINE... BETTER YET... JUST DRINK FORM THE BOTTLE... Stay in the house... No going out... Don't want you to slip in all that mud... and think of what tomorrow will bring... (besides a splitting headache)...
A new day... A day to go shopping... A day to not think about Guatemala (I KNOW, IMPOSSIBLE)... It's the weekend... Can't do anything till Monday... Better Yet... Tell Chris you need a Vacation, with HIM...
Just do something....
Guess what... I forgot where I was going with this... Hahaha...
My prayers are with you... HUGE HUGE HUGS!!!!
OH, NO!!!! They interviewed her, so why are they just being jerks???? I am so, so, so sorry Wendy. I am sorry for you, Chris, your kids at home, and for PBJ. It is just sickening that these people keep tossing your case around. . . I am praying that the minors court find resolution and lets you out FAST!
Awww Wendy...un-freaking-believable...
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Oh Wendy. I wish there was more that I could do but I will pray for this case. Maybe it won't be such a long investigation.
Gail
AHHHHH...not the news I was hopeing for when I opend your BLOG today...I just knew I would see you OUT OF THERE... I am so sorry and I am praying and thinking of you....I think I will giv eyou a call
I am sorry you received this disappointing news. I will be praying that this issue is resolved quickly and that both adoptions get moving.
I'm so sorry. I pray it gets through investigations quickly. This totally sucks!
I am so sorry to hear about this. I just don't know what to say but I hope they get on the ball and get your baby to you asap.
XOXO
I'm so so so very sorry Wendy. ;o( My heart breaks for your family.
Thank you too for posting on my blog about your dog experience. It never ceases to amaze me how irresponsible my next door neighbors are.......
And animal control came over to their house today ;o)
Oh sweet lady. This is just heart breaking. I am so sorry. My heart just aches for you. I wish I could help you somehow. It's so unfair. :0( Sending you a hug, Angel
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