Friday, May 02, 2008

Some answers


It has taken many days to try and find out what the truth is. Believe it or not, the Facilitator/attorney did actually send a notice of our case getting approved for Ahren to the old adoption agency (Facilitator admitted he did this....no idea why though). We really did have the director's signature and our file had been sent to the window to be picked up. BUT....you know NOTHING ever goes smoothly for us, so before the attorney picked it up, they fired the director, placed a new one over PGN and re-called all of the files that hadn't left the building yet to have them re-reviewed. So we didn't really get out. Close, but no luck. PGN has confirmed this is what happened. So back into the black hole for us. Twenty-eight months and counting.

15 comments:

Krystal said...

It won't be long now and that file will be OFFICIALLY OUT! I know it stinks to face another delay, but I praying that PGN keeps their word and starts releasing files soon.

Anonymous said...

If it has already been approved once, it will surely be approved quickly again..... He is coming home shortly..... I can feel it... it is your turn...

Hanna

Mamita J said...

Oh Wendy! You just can't catch a break! But, take heart! You've been approved and they can't hold your file much longer!

Praying...
Julie

Priscilla said...

that is truly heartbreaking. hopefully PGN will just re-sign it and get it out the door!

Anonymous said...

Wow - I truly do not understand why you can't catch a break here! But I do agree with others that if it was approved once hopefully it will be approved again and quickly!

Deb said...

Wendy-

Deb here with the black humor- at least no one can say thet this case was one of the ones that needs more investigation becuase it got out too fast (I hope you craked a smile with that one).

Hoping that you hear officially good news next week on Ahren's case. Even he is sucking on his lip becuase this sucks sooooo much.

Love and hugs to you,
Deb

Angel said...

Wendy, I don't even know what to say. I feel like my jaw just drops with every adoption update and I begin uttering words that should not be repeated. I am so sorry. That is just infuriating. AACKKK! Sending a hug your way. Angel

Kim said...

Oh my - so close!! I'm so sorry - I will be praying that they get this mess figured out soon and you get the good news you deserve on Ahren's case.

Kathy said...

Are you fricking kidding me?? Unbelievable! Why didn't he go get the file instead of emailing the wrong person!? I am so sorry!!! I hope this new director gets the files out quickly and that you are the first one out!!

dana said...

It is almost done... You have endured so much and I feel that you will be getting Ahren very soon.
Love you!

Anonymous said...

Wendy, Wendy, Wendy... (deep sigh)

Keep your head up, it will happen and the good thing is that it was close. Since it was approved and waiting, that means yours will be one of the first "re-reviewed". Can't wait until this is all a distant memory and we have all of these precious children home.

The new pics of PBJ and Ahren are just sweet! SWEET! PBJ looks sooo good and I have a sneaky feeling Ahren is going to be a heart throb when he grows up... that hair!

Heres to a good weekend and much good news this coming week.

HappyK

angieshaffer said...

You have got to be kidding me!

Susan said...

I just can't believe this! But surely it will make its way out the door soon. Both those children need to be home NOW.

Amy said...

HOLY COW!!! You were sooooo close...I can't believe it. I pray PGN opens those darn doors again soon and you come flying out of there. This is such a hard blow at this point in time. So sorry...praying for you.

Anonymous said...

OMG! Talk about testing faith here! Close enough to taste it. You will be out soon with an official approval and then the earth will shake with celebration!!!

I, for one, can't wait to see your good news! Keeping youand PGN in my prayers. I pray they get their act together soon and let you come get your boy!!!

Gayle